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  • Does cheating matter in uncontested divorce?

    Does cheating matter for uncontested divorce in DuPage County?

    Hardly.

    If you have been cheated on, that’s too bad. But the best thing to do may be to move on as quickly as possible.

    If you want to move on with life, contact me at 312-554-5433. or online.

    Cheating and impact on the divorce “waiting period”

    If you want to file for divorce in Illinois, you have to be a resident in Illinois for the 90 days proceeding filing for divorce.

    But aside from the 90 day “waiting period” to file, there is possibly another waiting period that has to be completed. (more…)

  • How NOT to start a DuPage County Divorce: “Online Divorce” documents

    Do you want to handle your DuPage County divorce without a lawyer and by using a website to prepare divorce documents?

    If so, I understand why. You don’t want to pay a lawyer. Who would?

    But understand this:

    Online divorce websites are dangerous

    Those websites created by non-lawyers are garbage, and you will be putting your money and time at severe risk by using them. Do yourself a favor and call me at 312-554-5433. or online. (more…)

  • Child custody in uncontested divorce: divorce lawyer gives basics

    Do you have children?  Want an uncontested divorce? Then child custody and visitation is important.

    I’m an Illinois uncontested divorce lawyer. I know custody and visitation issues can be confusing. When you understand those issues, you can move head more quickly.

    You can email me or call me at 312-554-5433 if you need to start your uncontested divorce.

    Also, check out his article about child custody in uncontested divorce.

    What is child custody in uncontested divorce?

    Many people believe there are two types of child custody in Illinois. Legal custody and physical custody. However that is no longer the case.

    Some time ago, course used to grant legal custody and physical custody. Now, there is just legal custody, and visitation; the term “physical custody” is not longer something that a court grants.

    What is legal custody?

    Legal custody concerns the legal decision-making power regarding children. There are two types of legal custody.

    • Joint legal custody: Both parents share decision-making power. They should consult each other on major decisions and as outlined in a joint parenting agreement or judgment.
    • Sole legal custody: One parent has the decision-making power. The parent with sole legal custody can make decisions alone. The decision-making power can be limited by a parenting agreement or judgment.

    The relationship between custody and visitation

    What is the relationship between legal custody and visitation? Nothing. Here are some examples:

    • Joint custody: with uneven time sharing: Parents share joint legal custody, but the children might are with one parent 80 percent of time.
    • Sole custody: One parent has sole legal custody, but the parents could share almost equal time with the children.

    Finding a lawyer

    The bottom line is that when choosing the best DuPage County divorce lawyer, you’ll need to consider your specific situation, are carefully weigh your options. Divorce and child custody cases are complicated, and can impact the rest of your life.

    If you thinking about getting divorce in DuPage County, whether in Naperville, Downers Grove, Elmhurst, Wheaton or elsewhere, you can contact me to get started.

     

     

  • Best DuPage County Divorce Lawyer: Who? Where?

    Want the best DuPage County divorce lawyer? You might be looking a long time.

    Do you live in Naperville, Oak Brook, Elmhurst or Wheaton? Then you are surrounded by lawyers.

    If you are interested in a divorce in DuPage County, check out my article titled, “DuPage County Uncontested Divorce Process.”

    Also, here are some tips in finding the best lawyer for your in DuPage County.

    Cost of divorce lawyer

    Cost is important. Many people have a major problem affording the representation they need to protect their rights. But there

    Personality fit

    You need a lawyer that fits you, and your situation.

    If you are unable to communicate with your Du Page County divorce lawyer, you’re case won’t go as well as it could.

    On the other hand, you don’t want an attorney who just blows smoke to make you feel good – and to run up your bill.

    Strategic thinking

    Your lawyer should be a strategic thinker. Not just in court with your spouse on the stand. But also working up to a possible trial. Strategy can play a big role in collecting evidence, for example.

    Referral

    You can easily find a divorce lawyer by referral.

    But is that the best way to find a lawyer?

    What is the referral based on? Friendship? Quality work?

    If you are referred to a lawyer by that lawyer’s past client, is that worth something? Maybe not. For example, if the person who referred you had a case dissimilar to yours, there may not be much reason to believe the lawyer will similarly handle your case.

    Starting your divorce with a DuPage County divorce lawyer

    The bottom line is that when choosing the best DuPage County divorce lawyer, you’ll need to consider your specific situation, are carefully weigh your options. Divorce and child custody cases are complicated, and can impact the rest of your life.
    If you thinking about getting divorce in DuPage County, whether in Naperville, Downers Grove, Elmhurst, Wheaton or elsewhere, you can contact me to get started.
  • Shocking Naperville divorce lawyer ad

    Are you looking for a Naperville divorce lawyer? Do you want to know why you should get an uncontested divorce? You could read my article “Benefits of an Uncontested Divorce,” or contact me if you want to get started. Or, you can simply take a gander at the below amazingly stupid Craigslist ad apparently posted by a real lawyer.

    Family Law Attorney – Mom Wanted (Naperville)

    That subhead you just read “Family Law Attorney – Mom Wanted (Naperville)” is the actually headline for a Craigslist ad that stated the following:

    Part-time lawyer for Naperville family law practice. Perfect position for a lawyer-mom that wants to work one day per week (or two 1/2 days) and earn over $60K per year. Set your own schedule and your own court times. We assign you to work on as many or as little cases as you want. Most attorneys on this program work on 10 files at any given time, and earn over $60K per year and only come to the office once per week.

    Willing to explore a full-time arrangement 20-30 files for the right person, where income is over $100,000.

     All inquiries will be confidential and private.

     Divorce and custody experience a must.

    Why that Naperville divorce lawyer ad is so meaningful

    Section 2-102 of the Illinois Human Rights Act states that  “It is a civil rights violation . . . For any employer to . . . act with respect to recruitment [or] hiring . . . on the basis of unlawful discrimination[.]”

    In Illinois, discrimination based on sex (gender) is unlawful.

    In other words, the ad is one in which – seemingly – an actual law firm published its desire to illegally discriminate in its hiring.

    I personally feel sorry for any clients who have hired a firm run by such ignorant people. It is not smart to act illegally, but someone does, you would think NOT publishing the illegal act would be advisable.

    If that law firm is publicly and unashamedly engaging in discriminatory hiring they cannot possibly exercise the judgement required of a trusted attorney.

    When you engage in a contested divorce, you are putting yours and your family’s future at risk of being impacted by factors you cannot control.

    For example, there are many competent and skilled judges who may rule differently on the same matter – its unpredictable.  And there are many competent attorneys who will approach the same problem differently. However, as the ad illustrates, there are simply ignorant people who can also impact your case.

    In contrast, when you get an uncontested divorce in DuPage County, you are more in control of your own case than you otherwise would be.

    What does a contested divorce cost?

    It is unpredictable what a divorce will cost. However, if you want to fight about property and kids, you can’t be surprised when your bill runs into tends of thousands of dollars.

    Sometimes, fighting with your spouse is the right thing to do – like when someone is trying to stop you from s$60eeing your kids. But most the time, an amicable divorce by agreement is preferable.

    Take another look at that ad. In it, the law firm states that it will pay an attorney $60 thousand per year for working only two days per week with a totally flexible schedule.  Frankly, I have no idea how an Illinois family law attorney can have a schedule like that. I also handle contested cases, and I can tell you there is no way I could competently handle  the caseload described in the ad during only 1-2 days per week.

    Imagine how much the clients of that firm are paying if the law firm can afford to pay its associate attorney’s that way. That ad states that their lawyers can make at least $60 thousand per year by working 1 day per week (or 52 days a year). That seems to mean the same attorney could work full time and make $300,000 per year ($60,000 * 5 days per week).  Sure, some of the best divorce attorneys in DuPage County make $300,000 per year. But many of them are partners, founders of firms, and represent millionaires.

    Get a quick, affordable divorce in DuPage County

    Instead of hiring a firm that can’t even manage recruit attorneys legally, you may contact me for an affordable uncontested divorce for a flat fee.

    I can serve clients in the following DuPage County communities, and others:

    • Oak Brook
    • Naperville
    • Downers Grove
    • Elmhurst
    • Wheaton
    • Lombard
    • Aurora
  • Uncontested high net worth Divorce: Don’t waste money

    If you are considering a uncontested high net worth divorce, don’t fall into the trap of endless fighting. If you attempt to litigate, your spouse and his or her attorneys will be highly motivated because so much money will be at stake. That could make everything very expensive. Instead . . .

    Get an uncontested divorce. Give less money to lawyers. Keep more money for yourself. Contact me to discuss your options.

    Whether you live in Naperville, Oak Brook, Elmhurst, or the surrounding area, you can get an uncontested divorce in DuPage County if you and your spouse can communicate amicably to arrive at an agreement. Check my article titled “Benefits of Uncontested Divorce” and read this primer on uncontested high net worth divorce.

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  • Napverville Uncontested Divorce Lawyer: Flat fee, quick

    If you need a Naperville uncontested divorce lawyer, no problem. I represent clients for uncontested divorces in Naperville, Aurora, Wheaton, and other cities in DuPage County. Here’s the good news: to get an uncontested divorce you don’t need to meet your lawyer or go to court until the very day that your divorce is finalized. Contact me online or call 312-543-5433 to get started now.

    Many people want look for divorce lawyers near where they live. They figure that meet a lawyer can be a hassle. They don’t wan to drive to far. They don’t want to miss work for a meeting with a lawyer.

    I’m a Naperville divorce lawyer, and I understand. That’s why I’d like to briefly answer a few question about getting an uncontested divorce in DuPage County.

    Where is divorce court?

    The DuPage County Courthouse is at  505 N County Farm Rd, Wheaton, Illinois. If you live in the part of Naperville that is in DuPage County, and file in DuPage County, your divorce will be heard there.

    How many times do I have to go to court?

    With the process I use for uncontested divorce in DuPage County, you only have to appear in court once. Last time I completed a divorce for someone in Naperville, the entire appearance in court took 20 minutes – from the time we walked in the door, to the time we left.

    Can I meet my Naperville uncontested divorce lawyer?

    You can meet a Napverville uncontested divorce lawyer in Napverille if you’d like. But with the process I use, meeting before we go to court is unnecessarily.  I look at it this way: you have many better things to do than meet with a lawyer. And for me to keep my fees affordable, I try not to have unnecessary meetings. If you choose a lawyer who insists on a meeting, it is highly likely that that lawyer will charge a fee commensurate with having a meeting.

    Is there a flat fee?

    Yes. My flat fee is very affordable. However, it does vary based on whether or not you have kids, or house, for example. The good news is that when you pay my flat fee, you don’t have to pay any other court fees – I pay those.

    How fast is an uncontested divorce?

    I once complete a DuPage county uncontested divorce in about 3 weeks. That’s pretty fast. Normally, the greatest delay is caused by the spouses reviewing that documents.  The quicker the documents are approved, the quicker I can file the case and get a court date.

     

     

  • Benefits of uncontested divorce

    Most of the clients I help with an uncontested divorce walk out of court smiling. Sure, on one hand divorce can be a difficult time. But on the other hand, if you filed for divorce, and then you get divorced, you’ve just accomplished something you need to move on with life. I highlight some of the benefits of uncontested divorce in this articleOr contact me now to get the ball rolling.

    You may ask . . .

    How quickly can I get divorced? (more…)

  • DuPage County Uncontested Divorce Process

    One of the most popular questions I get “how long will my divorce take?” I’m a DuPage County family law attorney. I know people want to move on as fast as possible Many times, an uncontested divorce can take little more than one month.

    This article is about the DuPage County uncontested divorce process. (more…)

  • Online Divorce? Think Divorce Deja Vu

    I’m a DuPage County uncontested divorce lawyer. I offer flat fees because I know people want to save money.

    Are you sane? Then you don’t want to waste money on lawyers. So you might be temped to use a website to create your divorce documents.

    But beware. You might experience “divorce deja vu” when you have problems years after your divorce.

    You are taking great risks if you let a website spit out divorce documents for you. Websites are not lawyers. They cannot go to court with you. I am a lawyer. And I will go to court with you. (more…)

  • Affordable, quick, flat fee divorce

    As a DuPage County divorce lawyer, I help with amicable, quick and affordable divorces. Avoiding fighting. Avoid huge lawyer bills.

    DuPage County: quick divorce

    In DuPage County, lawyers can file cases electronically. That speeds everything up. One DuPage divorce I handled was completed in under one month. (more…)